Uphuhliso lwabantwana emva konyaka omnye (ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu)

Ixesha egubungele uphuhliso lwabantwana emva konyaka omnye (ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu), ebizwa iisayikholojisti kwabaNtwana abasaKhulayo. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba usana lukhula ngakumbi, isantya yale nkqubo lifinyele. Umzekelo, kunyaka wesibini lomphefumlo umntwana akhule ukuya iisentimitha ezilishumi, kwaye eyesithathu - abasibhozo kuphela. Eli xesha yohlulwe sub-ngamanqanaba amathathu. Ulwazi iimpawu nganye iya kunceda kuba amaqhinga zemfundo echanekileyo.

Ukususela kunyaka nonyaka onesiqingatha

Malunga nonyaka iintsana baqala ukuhamba. Ngoku ke iya esizimeleyo, ivumela ukuba ukuhlola kwindawo ezingqongileyo. Zonke izinto ezingeenxa, umntwana kufuneka igalelwe ubone. Abazali kufuneka bamncede kuphuhliso isithuba, ukugcina inkqubo phantsi kweliso lakhe belindile. Umzekelo, ukuba itakane ufuna ukungena egumbini - ningabaleli, nokuba sikhwele kunye naye. Kodwa ukuba uthe waba nomnqweno lokudlala kumcinga, kokukhona kuya kuba bhetele ukuba yena akazange eze kulo emehlweni akhe. Uphuhliso lwabantwana emva konyaka kwaye ibandakanya isifundo of "Ubulumko" hambani. Musa ukuphaphazela uze ukhathazeke ukuba umntwana rhoqo iwela: amathambo akhe bhetyebhetye kangangokuba kwaye kulula ukuba phantse ikhefu akayi kufumana nayiphi na. Nokuba ngexesha lokuwa liphucula isistim musculoskeletal. Ezinye kwengqondo Ndiyakholwa ukuba xa ngamandla umntwana lowo, ukuba ngokukhawuleza kuya bagqwese inzululwazi ukuhamba, uphuhliso lwabantwana emva konyaka iya kuba onamandla angaphezu. Ngokuthe ngcembe eqonda ukuba emnyango nga aliqhawule iminwe yakho, kwaye engile yikhabhinethi yi ngesibetho ibuhlungu kakhulu. Uphuhliso lwabantwana emva konyaka kukhokelela amagama amatsha ngakumbi nangakumbi. Pipsqueak kunjalo alinakuthi ibinzana, kodwa abazali kufuneka baqonde into afuna ukuyithetha.

Ithuba enye enesiqingatha ukuya kwiminyaka emibini

Ngeli xesha, ukuphuculwa ikhono ngaphambili. Izinto ezintsha ngakumbi ebeganga iliso wosana, kokukhona ngokukhawuleza ke ubuchule kwindawo ezingqongileyo. Ngeli xesha, umntwana sele ngokwayo ungalawuleka ngecephe. Ukuba ukuba akakwenzi, kuyimfuneko ukuba lwenziwe ngendlela onikiweyo. Uphuhliso evumelanayo umntwana wayeza kuba njalo ukuba lingqongwe ubuncinane imiqathango. Ukuba wambamba ngecephe, nokuba ukufunda oko, uya kwenza lilinge lokuqala ukusebenzisa kwi khona. Kakade ke, amalinge okuqala azikho yimpumelelo kakhulu, kodwa musa ityala mntana. Yiba nomonde. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka sivumele ukuba ukudlala xa kutyiwa. Ngeli xesha, ungenza kulindela mabinzana kuqala.

Isithuba seminyaka emibini ukuya kwemithathu

Kweli nqanaba usana sele isebenza. Kwaye, kwangaxeshanye onokufika kuye ngobuhle. Ngoko ke, ukuze uphephe iingozi ezingeyomfuneko, ukhulule kwintsimi itakane nako ndimlahlele phandle amandla ukugeleza. Ukongeza, ngexesha ekuqaleni imibuzo emininzi. Kufuneka uzame ubuninzi ku aphendule kuzo zonke iimeko. Musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana nangoku uthatha izakhono ngokusebenzisa womgunyathi. Ukuba abazali uthathe - amnike bemthandele, makhe uncedo. Yena sele clever ukuqonda imfuneko yabasebenzi. Kwaye unako ukuba kunye naye ukondla unodoli. Imfundo zabantwana ukuya kutsho kwiminyaka-3 - kakhulu onzima, ngenxa yokuba abazali kuya kufuneka bafunde indlela oza kusabela ngayo umntwana zabantwana (ukuba kwenzeka nkqu Tots uzolile). Ufuna ukunceda umntwana wakho uziva ngathi ilungu epheleleyo yoluntu.