Oko kuza lufikelele esiphelweni kwekhefu lokubeleka le. Uya kufika kungekudala ukusebenza kwakhona, yaye kid yakho iya abancinane okokuqala. Indlela ukhululekile na iintsuku zokuqala lokuhlala kwakhe apho, kuxhomekeke nje kuphela ootitshala, kodwa kuwe. kuphakama imibuzo ezininzi phambi kwabo bonke abazali. Yintoni pre-school ukukhetha? Indlela yokukhusela umntwana wakho uxinezelekile? Xa kungcono ukuba umntwana okokuqala enkulisa? Indlela yokukhusela umntwana wakho ukuba ukugula? Kwaye oku, Kakade ke, asiyiyo yonke into sibuhlungu oomama onenkathalo abazali.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana baqale ukuya kumaziko pre-school, zigula. Kwaye akukho kuphela ootitshala okukwazi okanye engayenzanga aphantsi, abazali bathi. Kanye kule imiyezo "ibhadula" Zininzi iintsholongwane, awanyakazela ngayo usana umzimba musa ukuza kuyo ngaphambili. Nencinane umntwana, ngokuqina kuhlasela iintsholongwane. ngokwenene Kukho yobudala kubaluleke kakhulu: enkulisa anike umntwana ngcono emva kweminyaka emithathu, xa amajoni omzimba uya komelela kwaye bakwazi ukumelana iintsholongwane eziqhelekileyo, kwaye ngokunxulumene ezintsha - ukuphuhlisa uxhathiso.
Kubhetele ukuba umntwana enkulisa okokuqala ekuqaleni ekwindla. Ukuba ngexesha lasehlotyeni umntwana wakho yokubaleka bejikeleza engceni okanye isanti bengenambadada, ahlambe sedikeni wazidla iziqhamo, umzimba yomelele kakhulu yaye ukulungele ukuba ixesha lasekwindla-ebusika. Agasti nangoSeptemba - iinyanga ezininzi ezifanelekileyo ukutyelela umntwana enkulisa yokuqala. Ngeli xesha, sifudumele ngokwaneleyo, kwaye umzimba ixesha ukuqhelana.
"Yintoni igadi ingcono?" - Omnye umbuzo osemthethweni. Inyaniso kukuba kutsha nje kwixa elidlulileyo kakhulu, zonke preschools bathobele inkqubo efanayo kunye nesicwangciso sophuhliso enye, ejolise ukulungiselela ngcembe esikolweni. Namhlanje le yokuba izitiya ezi wokuhlelwa ezininzi (kwaye ke bayashiyana orientation) bohlulwa babe ngamaqela: abucala (zasekhaya kunye zorhwebo), yeSebe, kamasipala. Ngokuxhomekeka kuhlobo amaziko ziya kwahluka kunye neenkqubo zoqeqesho, kwaye inani labantwana kwiqela elinye, kwaye umgangatho ukutya, nkqu, yeha, umoya nasengqondweni. Ezinye izitiya kuba igama olungileyo kangangokuba etyhwini eza kukugcina phantse ukusuka ezelwe umntwana. Amaninzi, abazali bayaqhubeka ukukhetha preschools zoluntu kunye neenkqubo ezisemgangathweni zemfundo ngokubanzi. Sebenzisa iinkonzo ezongezelelweyo ihlawulwe okanye akufuni kuwe (uvumelekile ukuba ukulibala).
Ngaphambi kokuba eze abancinane umntwana okokuqala, buza utitshala intloko okanye ikamva lakho, leyo kufuneka bakwazi ukwenza umntwana wakho. I iyonke inqanaba lophuhliso kunye nolwamkelo lwentlalo lowo irhoxisiwe. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba umntwana akwazi ukwenza into ngokwabo, kuya kuxhomekeka nokuci- ukugculelwa (iminyaka emithathu) kunye, ngelishwa, kubangele ubuhlungu kubasebenzi. umsebenzi wakho - ukufundisa usana ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu izinto ezisisiseko: ngokwabo ukuze badle, ukuba awusebenze (neehempe kukuwohloka iibhatyi, amaqhosha amaqhosha ka, kunye nezitshixo, ukutsala itight, etc ...), Hlamba izandla zakho. Kule minyaka, abantwana sele ngokukhululekileyo ukuqokelela iimilo ezilula iityhubhu, ingcibi uyazi imibala esisiseko kunye namagama amanani. Ngamandla likhuthaza uphuhliso intetho: funda oko, thetha, buza imibuzo, yaye musa ukuchitha iimpendulo. Umntwana kufuneka ndidlalele iqela ebelapha. ziya kuphuhliswa ngcono, ngoko kulula ngokwengqondo ukuziva kweli qela.
Kodwa! Ukuzisa abancinane umntwana okokuqala, musa ukuyishiya nto ixesha elide. umahluko nokuba kwakhe - konxunguphalo. Ngosuku lokuqala Hlala kakuhle kwiqela kunye nosana. Iiyure ukuba ukuhlola kwanele. Ngosuku olulandelayo, ukushiya umntwana wabo bekukwangelo lixa, kodwa mnye. Emva koko - phambi kwesidlo sasemini. Ukwandisa ixesha lokuhlala komntwana egadini ngokuthe ngcembe, yaye ngoko ke lithathelwe lilonke kuya kwenzeka kakhulu lula.